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Question Vindictive Mother ( FreeAdvice Forums Child Custody Visitation )
Updated: 2008-04-19 18:17:03 (26)
Vindictive Mother

What is the name of your state? Mississippi

My husband and I recently got married 5 months ago. We have a child together, and he a son by another woman. We dated for about 4 years before we finally got married. My step-sons mother is sorry. She recently decided to go too DHS and file for child support. My husband is a good father, he has kept my step son since he was six weeks old. She has 2 more kids, she doesnt feed the kids, and most importantly she recently went to jail for petit larceny. I told my husband he needs to get custody of his son. The other night she called and said she was shipping my step-son to Georgia to live with her father, and she is going to try to collect child support anyway. She will call and say she needs 20 for gas to take my step son to school, so when my husband didnt give it too her. She didnt take him to school for 3 days. I am just tired of her trifling ways, and her lack of not wanting better for herself, and those kids.

Answers: Vindictive Mother ( FreeAdvice Forums Child Custody Visitation )
Vindictive Mother

Your husband needs to get to court and get everything court ordered. She has every right to file for support if the child is in her custody. Sending the child away is a whole other matter, and that is why your hubby needs to get to court on this.

He really can't talk about how unfit she is, when he has done nothing about it for years. You state he has had his son since he was 6 weeks old, so who has custody? Has he been declared the legal father?

Shay-Pari'e

Vindictive Mother

First of all she has been in abusive relationships, she has let the boy get ringworms, my step-son has seen her get beat up several times, she has cursed my mother law out, so yes she is unfit! You forgot the Petit Larceny charges, and we live 5 minutes if she wants us to take him to school then say that dont call asking for money. And threatening us with DHS with you are having a bad day! If she was a good mother I would say that THANKS!!!

Anmcco

Vindictive Mother

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Originally Posted by Anmcco
First of all she has been in abusive relationships, she has let the boy get ringworms, my step-son has seen her get beat up several times, she has cursed my mother law out, so yes she is unfit! You forgot the Petit Larceny charges, and we live 5 minutes if she wants us to take him to school then say that dont call asking for money. And threatening us with DHS with you are having a bad day! If she was a good mother I would say that THANKS!!!
So while all this have been going on, did YOUR HUSBAND (because once again you are a legal stranger) call DHS on the Mom???? Oh you didnt??? Hmmm well that means it was OK with you that all this went on.

Oh and cussing out the Mom in law? If that was being a "bad mom & unfit" then heck 99.9999% of us moms would be unfit LMAOO

Didn't forget the charges.... ws she convicted? Sent to prison? Did YOUR HUSBAND do anything about it at that time???

As for the ringworm..... kids all over America get ringworm. It has nothing to do with how good or bad the parents are.

**Lets not forget that YOUR HUSBAND CHOSE this type of person to sleep with and create a child with.

StampGirl

Vindictive Mother

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Originally Posted by StampGirl
Ok thats weird??

Where did my post go?? I sure as heck didn't delete it LOL
OP probably reported it. Sometimes people do not like hearing the truth.

Shay-Pari'e

Vindictive Mother

You are putting a bad taste in my mouth. Dont judge a book by its cover and are you having a bad day HONEY! The girl is unfit, I have a 7 year old, her father doesnt take care of her. I do..... Oh well thats whats wrong with some women today!!! Hold the FORT DOWN ON YOUR OWN AND STOP EXPECTING A MAN TO TAKE CARE OF YOU!!!!!!! FOR THE RECORD WE HAVED FILED WITH THE COURT THANKS.

Anmcco

Vindictive Mother

Quote:
Originally Posted by Anmcco
What is the name of your state? Mississippi

My husband and I recently got married 5 months ago. We have a child together, and he a son by another woman. We dated for about 4 years before we finally got married. My step-sons mother is sorry. She recently decided to go too DHS and file for child support. My husband is a good father, he has kept my step son since he was six weeks old. She has 2 more kids, she doesnt feed the kids, and most importantly she recently went to jail for petit larceny. I told my husband he needs to get custody of his son. The other night she called and said she was shipping my step-son to Georgia to live with her father, and she is going to try to collect child support anyway. She will call and say she needs 20 for gas to take my step son to school, so when my husband didnt give it too her. She didnt take him to school for 3 days. I am just tired of her trifling ways, and her lack of not wanting better for herself, and those kids.
WHy would YOU have to tell him this? If he cared that much, dont you think he would want to do it on his OWN?

summerdawn

Vindictive Mother

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Originally Posted by Anmcco
First of all she has been in abusive relationships, she has let the boy get ringworms, my step-son has seen her get beat up several times, she has cursed my mother law out, so yes she is unfit! You forgot the Petit Larceny charges, and we live 5 minutes if she wants us to take him to school then say that dont call asking for money. And threatening us with DHS with you are having a bad day! If she was a good mother I would say that THANKS!!!
Butt out! You have only been married to the man for 4 months and already have a child with him. Daddy didn't do much to rectify the situation, now did he? He just sat back and watched.

I gave you your solid legal advice, no go forth and tell hubby what I said.

Shay-Pari'e

Vindictive Mother

Quote:
Originally Posted by Anmcco
You are putting a bad taste in my mouth. Dont judge a book by its cover and are you having a bad day HONEY! The girl is unfit, I have a 7 year old, her father doesnt take care of her. I do..... Oh well thats whats wrong with some women today!!! Hold the FORT DOWN ON YOUR OWN AND STOP EXPECTING A MAN TO TAKE CARE OF YOU!!!!!!! FOR THE RECORD WE HAVED FILED WITH THE COURT THANKS.
Then wash that mouth out with soap to get rid of the taste of TRUTH.

Nope having a GREAT DAY.

That "girl" is the woman who your hubby slept with and created a child. Nice to know you think your stepchild is half "bad".

I do hold down my own fort thank you very much. Oh and btw... I have THREE children. All girls. All almost teenagers. The only person I expect to take care of me and OUR (yes me and my ex husband) children is US. HIS wife has had to learn the same lesson YOU need to learn. And that is to BUTT OUT.

But pls take your attitude into court and then come back and tell us all how it was to be handed your behind by the judge who btw, don't take over-stepping step-parents too kindly. Let us know how the seats in the HALLWAY are because thats where YOU will be during hte court proceedings.

Have a nice day.

StampGirl

Vindictive Mother

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Originally Posted by summerdawn
WHy would YOU have to tell him this? If he cared that much, dont you think he would want to do it on his OWN?
Because she is the all-knowing and powerful STEP MOMMY. She knows best and we can all learn from her.

StampGirl

Vindictive Mother

Quote:
Originally Posted by Anmcco
You are putting a bad taste in my mouth. Dont judge a book by its cover and are you having a bad day HONEY! The girl is unfit, I have a 7 year old, her father doesnt take care of her. I do..... Oh well thats whats wrong with some women today!!! Yep, just like some people would view you having a baby, maybe 2, without being married?

Hold the FORT DOWN ON YOUR OWN AND STOP EXPECTING A MAN TO TAKE CARE OF YOU!!!!!!! FOR THE RECORD WE HAVED FILED WITH THE COURT THANKS.
For the record, NO you didn't.

Shay-Pari'e

Vindictive Mother

Who has custody of this child? Is there a court order for ANYTHING?

baystategirl

Vindictive Mother

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Originally Posted by StampGirl
Because she is the all-knowing and powerful STEP MOMMY. She knows best and we can all learn from her.
All knowing and powerful-she must be related to the Wizard of Oz.

summerdawn

Vindictive Mother

I'm curious as to what "petit larceny" is.
Maybe the MOM is a very skinny alleged thief?

Zigner

Vindictive Mother

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Originally Posted by Zigner
I'm curious as to what "petit larceny" is.
Maybe the MOM is a very skinny alleged thief?
It was only "little" larceny. Instead of the regular size larceny.

StampGirl

Vindictive Mother

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Originally Posted by Zigner
Or, perhaps you missed the other possible explanation. PERHAPS the husband doesn't feel there is a problem that needs to be addressed...
and we are somehow the ones to decide that????

sorry MY crystal ball is in the shop.

fairisfair

Vindictive Mother

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Originally Posted by fairisfair
This site will do that to you.

If your husband had a child that he was worried about, and he was either too lazy, too ignorant or too embarrassed to get advice. . . . . . .would you help him?

Yeah, i'm pretty darned sure I would. I think the biggest thing that bothers me is women who come in here listing little petty things and calling the mom unfit for dumb reasons...it gets kind of old after a while.

I was kind of jumped on in my first post, and it was not fun. I will try to be more mindful of how I treat newer people. I know I don't have a whole lot of legal advice to give, so I usually try to help them with their posts by letting them know about the FAQ and stuff. I figure if I post about little things like that, it might free people up who are more knowledgeable to answer the actual legal questions.

summerdawn

Vindictive Mother

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Originally Posted by Shay-Pari'e
Fair, no one can dictate what others post, or how they approach it. SG laid it on the line. It's true that hubby has done NOTHING about any of this and it is obvious that new wifie is just upset that mommy has filed for support.
actually, apparently there IS someone who can dictate what others post. In fact look down, I see her moderating the thread as we speak.

I didn't find it obvious that she was upset about the support. I did see her concern that the child was NOT LIVING with her and she was trying to collect support.

fairisfair

Vindictive Mother

Quote:
Originally Posted by fairisfair
This site will do that to you.

If your husband had a child that he was worried about, and he was either too lazy, too ignorant or too embarrassed to get advice. . . . . . .would you help him?
Or, perhaps you missed the other possible explanation. PERHAPS the husband doesn't feel there is a problem that needs to be addressed...

Zigner

Vindictive Mother

[quote=fairisfair;1890602]Actually Shay, post # 2 is the only one that belongs here.

[quote]

Fair, no one can dictate what others post, or how they approach it. SG laid it on the line. It's true that hubby has done NOTHING about any of this and it is obvious that new wifie is just upset that mommy has filed for support.

Shay-Pari'e

Vindictive Mother

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Originally Posted by summerdawn
Well, i'll be darned.

I didn't give legal advice, but I did feel the need to ask her why she felt like she HAD to TELL father to take custody of the child. He is a grown man, and if he wants the child he is quite capable of filing. She shouldn't have to TELL him to do it. I think this site is getting me jaded. I have seen SO many stepmoms decide their man 'needs' the kid since i've been here. As a mom, it is unsettling.
This site will do that to you.

If your husband had a child that he was worried about, and he was either too lazy, too ignorant or too embarrassed to get advice. . . . . . .would you help him?

fairisfair

Vindictive Mother

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Originally Posted by Shay-Pari'e
Post # 2 Fair, then she got all snitty.
Actually Shay, post # 2 is the only one that belongs here.

fairisfair

Vindictive Mother

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Originally Posted by fairisfair
Petit Larceny: also petty larceny

The theft of objects whose value is below a certain arbitrary standard.
Well, i'll be darned.

I didn't give legal advice, but I did feel the need to ask her why she felt like she HAD to TELL father to take custody of the child. He is a grown man, and if he wants the child he is quite capable of filing. She shouldn't have to TELL him to do it. I think this site is getting me jaded. I have seen SO many stepmoms decide their man 'needs' the kid since i've been here. As a mom, it is unsettling.

summerdawn

Vindictive Mother

Not much legal advice.

fairisfair

Vindictive Mother

Petit Larceny: also petty larceny

The theft of objects whose value is below a certain arbitrary standard.

fairisfair

Vindictive Mother

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Originally Posted by fairisfair
Geez. . . . lots of moral indignation here.

Not much legal advice.

what the hell??????
OP was given legal advice.

StampGirl

Vindictive Mother

Quote:
Originally Posted by Zigner
I'm curious as to what "petit larceny" is.
Maybe the MOM is a very skinny alleged thief?
This is what they charge you with when you commit larceny in France.

summerdawn

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