I love PayPal. I have been using it to accept payments at my site for over a year and the only charges I ever incur are the Standard charges at the time payments are made.
I have heard of PayPal discontinuing accounts of MLM types of sites that incur a lot of charge backs. It says in their terms of service that MLM sites are not allowed, but yours does not seem to fit this category.
Some criticize sites that use PayPal saying they should get a "real" merchant account, but your post explains quite clearly why this is not an option for most new online businesses.
It is a good idea to also include a snail mail option for customers who cannot or do not wish to use PayPal. They could send checks or money orders instead. It would delay their receipt of products, but at least they have another option besides PayPal. Including a street address for payments and contact will inspire more confidence, too.
Have a Profitable Day,
Cathy Wagner
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